Leaders that try too hard to win people over are the ones that end up losing the respect of their employees – especially when it’s not genuine. The most memorable leaders
know how to naturally make a good first impression. They are mindful of
what most employees do and don’t expect of them and want to create for
them a safe environment that enables engagement. Leadership success is
all about people and when leaders forget this fact, they are headed
down a path of self-destruction.
First impressions are earned quickly,
but it takes time for employees to figure out the impact you are
attempting to create in your leadership role. I’ve seen many leaders
attempt to use their power and influence
to impress their employees only to find this strategy backfiring
because they were too aggressive – rather than taking a more steady
approach that invites other ideas and ideals into the fold.
Leadership is not about acting the part, but rather being your most
authentic self to serve the organization and advance others, while avoiding the traps of self-promotion along the way. As such, first impressions should never be forced; they are opportunities to reveal who you are and what you represent as a leader.
After being hired to assume a senior executive role at the age of 30,
making a first impression was important for me to begin to earn the
trust and respect of employees (many of whom were 20+ years my
senior). My hope was that the employees would give me a chance to work
closely with them to turn around the organization’s performance and
rebuild their brand’s reputation.
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Instead of walking directly into my office (the first day of work), I
began to greet people at their desks. I spent a good percentage of my
time the first month on the job meeting with employees and asking them
about their opinions regarding the state of the company, morale of the
workplace, and their other concerns and recommendations. This was a
company whose employees were loyal and that had never hired a senior
executive from the outside. Prior to assuming my role, I obtained a
diagram of the building with the seating designations of the employees,
along with their job descriptions and personal information they had
shared. I genuinely wanted the employees to know that I valued them,
cared about their interests and wanted to immediately contribute to
their professional goals and objectives. I encouraged them to ask
questions, challenge my opinions and established an open-door policy. I
didn’t want anyone to feel at-risk for speaking up, but rather give
everyone an opportunity to showcase their talents, skills-sets and
capabilities. This would be a difficult task if they were unclear of my
style and approach and my intentions for the business.
You can never go at leadership alone. Making a strong first
impression as a leader is about how people initially perceive you, but
respect is earned through the consistent actions you take and the
decisions you make that tend to the needs of the employees and support
the goals and objectives of the business. Without an inspired and
focused workforce – enabled to unleash their passionate pursuits of
excellence and clear about leadership’s expectations and intentions –
the business becomes vulnerable, at risk of losing its top-talent, and
productivity begins to wane.
As you continue your leadership journey, become more mindful of the
first impressions you are leaving behind for your employees, clients,
shareholders and the industry that you serve. How does your first
impression begin to impact performance, morale, attitude, trust and
innovation? What can you do to leave a genuine first impression at a
time when employees expect more from their leaders?
Here are 14 things every leader should consider if they want to make
an unforgettable first impression. Read them carefully and ask yourself
which ones you are doing and which ones you still need to introduce.
1. Warm Greeting
Being nice, attentive and making good eye contact is what is
expected. A leader’s ability to find areas of commonality with their
employees by telling stories that humanize their persona increases their
likeability factor. Employees want to know that you relate to them,
regardless of your hierarchy or rank.
2. Polished
Employees respect a leader that projects strong executive presence.
Beyond presence, they want body language that is non-threatening and a
polished demeanor (everything from manner of speaking and actions
towards others to dress code and grooming). When you are respectful
towards others, employees are proud to be associated with you –
whether in front of clients or family and friends.
On the other hand, leaders with an ostentatious attitude will be quick to lose the support of those they are attempting to lead.
3. Friendly; Engaging
Not every leader comes across as friendly. In fact, they may be so
focused on work to the point of social awkwardness. Leaders that
genuinely care about their employees and make an effort to engage with
them – starting with a powerful first impression – will go a long way.
4. Represents Their Authentic Self
Leaders are not always their authentic selves; this is why many are challenged to develop and live their personal brand as a leader.
Being authentic is about consistently representing who you are and what
you stand for — in everything you do and how you do it. Leaders must
be courageous enough to let others inside their domain, where they can
help elevate the talent around them and accelerate the implementation of
the business strategy. When leaders can be themselves, others feel
free to do the same without the pretense of asking permission.
5. Good Listeners
The best leaders listen to their employees because they want to learn
about them and from them. Employees that genuinely believe that their
opinions and points of view matter to their leaders are the ones that
fully engage. Leaders that roll-up their sleeves, get their hands
dirty and collaborate are the ones that value the importance of listening and translate this genuine effort into an ROI opportunity – for both the relationship and the business.
6. Are Interested In What Matters to Employees
Beyond listening, leaders that encourage employees to ask them the
tough questions will quickly begin to build camaraderie and trust with
their employees. Open-minded leaders that are interested in what
matters to employees and make them feel safe to express the truth are
the ones that build loyalty with their workforce. These types of
leaders hold town hall meetings and consistently encourage a democratic
setting where employees can share their perspectives regarding the
direction of the organization and its future.
7. Embrace Differences and Acknowledge Accomplishments
Leaders that embrace individuality and differences in thought and
know how to strategically apply them to stimulate growth, innovation and
new opportunities for the business are widely accepted by their
employees (especially when you consider the growing diversity in the
workplace). These leaders recognize individual achievement and
accomplishments and are creative at finding new ways to enable the full
potential of the organization, its business strategy and talent pool.
8. Knowledgeable
This may seem obvious, but never assume that the leader knows the
dynamics of the business as much as you might think. Respected leaders
are students of the business, constantly studying and looking for ways
to improve, adapt and course correct to market conditions. Many
leaders are just figureheads but not those that make an unforgettable
first impression. They are the ones that will touch the business just as
much as they lead it. They will keep everyone on their toes to make the
organization and its people stronger.
9. Accessibility
Accessibility to leaders has become one of the most important things
that employees want to see from their leaders. Most leaders hide behind
the politics, and are too calculated with their accessibility (what a
waste of time!) Leaders that are accessible inspire their employees
and cultivate an entrepreneurial attitude that helps the organization
fuel its competitive advantage. This was the case with the new CEO of
Microsoft, Satya Nadella, featured in a recent USA Today article, who
made a positive first impression throughout the organization when taking
over for Steve Ballmer in February.
10. Sense of Humor
A leader that brings a positive uplifting attitude fuels excitement
in the workplace. When a leader has a sense of humor, it balances the
intensity that exists in a high-performance organization. Leaders
that can convert complexity into simplicity with a little humor take the
edge off and make work fun again.
11. Vulnerability
Leaders leave a positive first impression when they don’t flaunt
their power and influence. By sharing their personal stories of their
own career trials and tribulations they inspire hope in their employees,
which in turn encourages them to unleash their passionate pursuits of
endless possibilities. Vulnerability is a powerful driver of employee
engagement that most leaders are too proud to reveal. We must not
forget that everyone has problems, they are just packaged differently.
12. Consistency
A leader with a consistent style and approach towards others and the
business is a mature leader who knows how to work well with others and
is effective under pressure and in the trenches. A consistent leader
is also the one that knows herself well enough to invest in the
development of her personal brand – and has grown confident enough to
live it every day. Consistency is important in a leader’s ability to
earn the trust and loyalty of others. Conversely, a lack of consistency
is one reason leaders lose the respect and trust of their employees.
13. Lead By Example
Leading by example is a surefire way to make good on an unforgettable
first impression. Too many leaders observe the game, rather than
activate themselves into it. When you lead by example, you set the
tone for the organization and employees will respect you more for your
ability and the energy you bring – rather than just your job title. My
personal motto: never advise others of something that you have never
done before yourself.
14. Motivational
Leaders today must be motivational and inspire hope. With the uncertainty that seems to never go away, employees need a leader that will help get them past the finish line.
Let’s face it, the workplace has become a more intense, competitive
place where we are all required to do more with less. Employees enjoy
working with leaders that know how to activate the best in everyone and
will go above the call of duty for them.
What will make these 14 unforgettable first impressions even more
powerful is your ability to continue applying them – consistently and
continuously – throughout the first six months of your leadership
journey and beyond. If you have already been in your leadership role for
some time, you may have to course correct and start over if you want to
positively change your impact and influence. While technically you
cannot leave a first impression anymore. you will be taking an
impressive stance to improve your leadership approach for the betterment
of a healthier whole.
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